GIRL CODE!

People never know how to handle problems or even understand them. Well thats why I decided to write about this!

Here's a problem that all of the girls would be needing help in ........BOYS!!!!! But every girl always has a bestfriend in that situation too. Boys could get in between friendships and even ruin them too. So lets just say one of your best or closest friends was going out with a guy thats a jerk and you know that in the end she's gonna get hurt. So what do you do???? Here are some steps to help you through that.

STEP 1: Talk to her. Tell her how you feel about him and the past relationships you have seen and witnessed.

STEP 2: If she doesnt believe you about him or thinks he's a different person then let it be then.

Now lets just say she was wrong. Then here are some more steps to help her through it:

STEP 1: Don't rub it in her face that you were right the whole time.

STEP 2: Help her get her mind off things like take her to the mall or go to the movies. Just make her forget about that loser!

STEP 3: Put her first. If both of you guys are going through something then go through it together don't just put your problem bigger than hers.

Or lets say your friends boyfriend is making you look bad or sound bad. Like i'm  going through that right this very second. Her boyfriend told her that me and my other friend were trying to make him brake up with her. And thats not true, not even close to being true! But luckily she believes her friends than him. But if she doesn't believe you then the first thing you do is:

• Don't just stop talking to her or leave her alone with him. just let her be mad. Because in the end she is gonna need you more than anything.
• Talk to the boyfriend. Put him on the spot make him feel bad for lieing.
• Let your friend know how long you guys have been friends and reasons why you would say that or lie about what you were saying to him.

Another main thing that I hear alot about their bestfriends get yelled at and we don't know what to do or if you should jump in or just leave it alone. Well in my opinion I would just try to stop the drama. Especially if you see and hear them talking bad about her. What you should do is stick up for her instead of acting like you didn't see or hear them yelling at your friend or talking mess about her. Like, wouldn't you want your friend to have your back!